tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6801845901009257788.post4426517968825838531..comments2013-09-29T22:26:28.733-07:00Comments on Inside My Skull: Love is not for meAnnie Cargirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03867691176742399534noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6801845901009257788.post-30436432861629590632011-10-14T12:17:40.093-07:002011-10-14T12:17:40.093-07:00Annie you should come to the Northwest. A change ...Annie you should come to the Northwest. A change of scenery might help your hurting soul. I would love to meet you. And Neil would love to meet you as well, of that I'm sure. J.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6801845901009257788.post-39279289969212187882011-06-14T17:50:35.236-07:002011-06-14T17:50:35.236-07:00There are many, many ways to look at the collectiv...There are many, many ways to look at the collective scenarios in our lives. Not just you, not just me, but all of us.<br /><br />Personally, I fall into the same boat as you. This by no means is meant to express that I 'know how you feel' because that is a very stock (and shallow) answer to such a complex issue as this. <br /><br />THE ME (IE, where I'm coming from):<br />I am a teddy bear. I have always been a teddy bear....but I am also a teddy bear that looks like it's been set on fire, thrown in a trash compactor, and had a firecracker shoved up its ass by a bunch of miscreant kids. This doesn't mean that I don't have a heart of gold, it just means that I'm a product of my experiences. For many years, I have unabashedly worn my heart on my sleeve and had that fact taken advantage of more times than can possibly be counted. This has made me callous, untrusting, and wary of those who try to curry favor with me. I have come to the realization that I will most likely never find that special someone to share the rest of my life with...and after many years I'm not only square, but genuinely OK with that. I'm not talking myself down, here...just being realistic. I am an acquired taste.<br /><br />The You:<br />Unfortunately, I do not know you in real life. Real life of course being a very unedited and unscripted place as opposed to its online counterpart. We show people online what we want them to see, who we want to be, and how we want to be received. From what I've seen of online Annie, she's an outspoken animal rights activist with a penchant for working on old cars while adding a twist of sarcasm with every chance she gets. She's a really awesome gal.<br /><br />The rambling point that I'm trying to make here is that people see what they want to see of you. The people that see you as the fantasy-badgirl fucktoy are one-dimensional and are not worth your time in the slightest. The largest erogenous zone in the human body is the brain...if they can't stimulate that, they're not gonna stimulate anything else either.<br /><br />IN CONCLUSION:<br /><br />Find a friend - that one *best* girlfriend that isn't gonna blow sunshine up your ass and tell you want you want to hear. That best friend is gonna tell you what you *need* to hear. Listen, process, and get you movin' in any direction you're needing to go.Shanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16307684574568529829noreply@blogger.com